Closing the practice

To end a self-hypnosis practice well, count yourself up, open your eyes, feel the chair and your feet, name three objects in the room, and wait a minute or two before you stand. Here’s how to do it, how to tell you’re fully back, and what to do if you aren’t.

Why the ending matters

You may have spent 10 minutes with your own attention: a sentence you chose, your breathing, or a picture of a porch in summer that you invited into your mind and can also send away. On Arcana Mentis, that’s what self-hypnosis means. Ending it well matters as much as starting it. A mind that has been turned inward needs a moment at the door, the way your eyes need a moment to adjust when you step from a dim movie theater into a sunny parking lot.

You were never gone, only paying attention in a different direction, and now you’ll turn that attention back toward the room. Most of the time this takes a minute or two and feels like waking from a good nap on a Sunday afternoon. Done in a rush, it can leave you foggy, a little dizzy, or oddly flat for the next hour, and some people decide the practice isn’t for them when the real trouble was the last two minutes.

This page covers the closing in detail: the steps, the small aids that make it easier, the safety checks before you drive or cook, and what to do on the rare day when the room doesn’t come back as quickly as you’d like. If you’re new to the practice, read it before your first session.

How to come back, step by step

When you’re ready to finish, decide that you’re finishing, and tell yourself in your own words that you’re bringing your attention back. A plain sentence works well: “I’m coming back to the room now, clear and steady.” Then follow these steps in order. The whole closing takes about two to five minutes.

  1. Count up. Count slowly from one to five, one number for each breath in. Tell yourself that at five you’ll open your eyes, feeling awake and clear. Let your breathing get a little fuller with each number.
  2. Open your eyes. At five, open them. Blink a few times and let the light in. If the room seems too bright, look down at your lap first.
  3. Feel your body. Notice the chair under you, then the back of the chair against your shoulders, then your feet on the floor. Press your feet down a little until you can feel the pressure clearly. Then notice the air on your face.
  4. Name three objects. Look at three objects you could name for a neighbor, like a lamp, a cup, and the corner of the window, and name them silently or aloud. Saying the color of each one helps too: “The lamp is brass, the cup is blue, the curtain is white.”
  5. Move. Wiggle your fingers and toes, open and close your hands, and roll your shoulders if that’s comfortable. Stretch your arms overhead, the way you might after a long drive.
  6. Drink some water. Take a few sips from the glass you set nearby before you began.
  7. Wait, then stand slowly. Stay put for another minute or two with your eyes open. When you’re ready, slide forward, put one hand on the arm of the chair or the table, and stand up slowly. Pause on your feet for a few breaths before you walk.

These steps tell your senses that the private minutes are over and the kitchen is real. If counting helps, count the objects around you, and use your ordinary voice. Stand when standing feels normal, and if it doesn’t yet, stay in the chair a little longer.

A short practice needs a short closing too. If you’ve only taken a minute with your eyes open, such as three breaths and your sentence in a hallway before you speak, the closing can be just as brief. Feel your feet, look at one object across the room and name its color, and take one ordinary breath before you move. Skipping even that small step is how people end up walking into a room with their attention still turned inward.

At the other end, a longer or deeper practice deserves a slower return. If you went further than usual, or a strong feeling came up, count up from 1 to 10 instead of 5, and add a few more minutes of moving and looking around before you stand. There’s no prize for getting up quickly, and nobody is timing you.

How to tell you’re fully back

You’re fully back when you could make a cup of tea without a second thought. That’s a good everyday test, because making tea asks you to handle hot water, find the cup, and keep track of the kettle, all at once.

A few other signs help you check:

  • Your eyes focus easily on the far side of the room, and the room looks the way it always does.
  • You know what day it is and what you meant to do next.
  • Your hands and feet feel like your own, with normal strength.
  • Your voice sounds like your voice when you say a sentence out loud.
  • You can stand and walk across the room without feeling unsteady.

It’s normal to feel pleasantly loose or a little slower than usual for a few minutes. That usually clears as you move around. Feeling relaxed is different from feeling foggy, and if you’re unsure which one you have, give it five more minutes before you do anything that needs care.

Small aids that make closing easier

A few small habits make the return smoother, especially in the first weeks.

Before you begin, set a soft timer for a couple of minutes past the time you plan to finish. A soft chime or a kitchen timer in the next room works better than a loud phone alarm, which can jolt you. The timer also frees you from wondering how long it’s been, which helps you relax in the first place.

Plan the closing before you start. Many people find it helps to say at the very beginning, “When I count to five, I’ll come back awake, clear, and ready for the rest of my day.” That sentence becomes part of the practice, and your mind tends to follow it.

Keep the room ready for coming back. Set a glass of water on a side table. Leave a lamp on or the curtains partly open, so the room isn’t dark when you open your eyes. If you practice in bed in the evening and plan to fall asleep, you can skip the full return. If you need to get up in the night, though, sit on the edge of the bed for a minute first and turn on a light before you walk.

Choose what comes next with care. A short walk to the mailbox, washing a few dishes, or watering the plants all help your body finish waking up. Leave anything that needs sharp attention, such as paying bills or using a knife, for at least 15 minutes.

Safety first: before you drive, cook, or take the stairs

Never start a practice in a car, on a bike, at a machine, or anywhere your everyday attention keeps people safe. Don’t drive, and don’t handle anything sharp or hot, until you feel as alert as you do on an ordinary morning. If you feel dreamy, stay in your chair and press your feet into the floor until you can feel the pressure clearly. Being late and fully alert beats being on time and only half back.

Give yourself at least 15 minutes after a practice before you drive, and longer if you feel at all foggy. If you practice before an appointment, plan to arrive early and practice in the waiting room with your eyes open, rather than practicing at home and driving straight there.

Stand up slowly, especially if you’re older or take medicine for blood pressure. Some people get dizzy when they stand up quickly after resting, because blood pressure can drop for a few seconds as the body adjusts. Hold the arm of the chair, stand, and wait a few breaths before you walk. Take stairs with a hand on the rail.

If you take any medicine that makes you sleepy, such as some pain, sleep, or allergy medicines, you may feel drowsier than usual after a practice. Keep taking your medicines as prescribed, and if you notice this, practice at a time of day when the medicine has the least effect, or ask your pharmacist about timing.

If you fell asleep

Falling asleep during self-hypnosis is common, especially in the evening or after a meal, and it does no harm. If you wake up in the chair, take a moment to notice where you are and what time it is. Then follow the closing steps from the start, as if you’d just finished the practice.

You might wake up a little confused about the time or the room, the way you can after any nap. That clears in a minute or two. Give yourself the same 15 minutes before you drive or cook.

If you fall asleep every time, try practicing earlier in the day, in a firmer chair, with your feet flat on the floor and your hands resting on your thighs rather than folded on your stomach. A shorter practice of five minutes can help too. Falling asleep often may also be a sign you aren’t getting enough sleep at night, which is worth mentioning to your doctor.

If you don’t feel fully back

Most of the time the room comes back, and you carry on with the tap, the letter, or the door. Sometimes your attention stays soft, or a feeling you don’t like hangs around. If that happens, stop, and don’t start another session to fix the first one.

Instead, use your body and the room. Say your name and today’s date out loud. Put both feet on the floor and press down. Hold something cool, such as a glass of cold water or a cold washcloth, and notice the temperature. Stand up carefully and walk around the room, touching the back of a chair, a countertop, and a door frame as you pass. Open a window or step outside for fresh air. Turn on the radio or call a friend and talk about something ordinary, like the weather or what you’re having for supper.

Most people feel like their usual selves again within 10 or 15 minutes of doing that. If you still feel far away, frightened, or unlike yourself, tell someone you trust, and talk with your doctor if the distress stays.

A hard session doesn’t mean your medicine has failed, so keep taking any prescribed medicine as prescribed. It’s also fine to decide that this practice isn’t for you right now. Five minutes in a chair is a lighter practice with your eyes open, and the meditation page when stillness feels worse covers similar feelings.

When to stop the practice and call your doctor

Stop practicing and talk with your doctor if any of these happen:

  • You feel detached from your body or the world, or the room seems unreal, for more than an hour after practicing.
  • Upsetting memories or images come up during the practice and keep coming back afterward.
  • Your mood drops after practicing, more than once.
  • You have trouble telling what’s real, or you hear or see things others don’t.
  • You have headaches, dizziness, or nausea after most sessions.

When you call, you might say, “I’ve been doing a self-hypnosis practice at home, and afterward I feel far away for a couple of hours. It’s happened three times this week.” That gives your doctor what they need to help.

Get emergency help right away by calling 911 if you notice sudden confusion, weakness or numbness on one side of your body, trouble speaking, or a severe headache. Those can be signs of a stroke, which can happen at any time, during a practice or not, so don’t wait to see if they pass. The hypnosis room has the full practice from start to finish, and the hypnosis FAQ answers other common questions about safety.

Learn more from trusted sources

These public health agencies explain the medical side of hypnosis and emergency signs in more detail than this site does.

  • Hypnosis from the National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health explains what hypnosis is and what is known about it.
  • Signs and symptoms of stroke from the CDC lists the warning signs that mean you should call 911.

If you need care

If you feel unwell, far away, or in crisis after a practice, reach out to a person. In the United States, call or text 988. If you’re outside the United States, call your local emergency number or a local crisis line. Talk with your doctor if the distress stays, and keep taking any prescribed medicine as prescribed. There’s more in the hypnosis room, short definitions of hypnosis and self-hypnosis in the glossary, and short answers in the Site FAQ.